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Great Kids, Great Parents Blog
By Dr. Paul Holinger


Good News!
Bolivia has become
the 39th country – and 6th
in Latin America – to prohibit corporal punishment of
children in all settings.
Bolivia has a child/adolescent population of 4,654,000.

40th: Cabo Verde, Africa

41st: Argentina


A recent Reuters/Ipsos poll
found in the USA that over
65% of those polledapproved
of physical punishment.
Believe it or not: In 19 states
in the USA, physical
punishment of children
is still legal in the schools.

Dr. Paul HolingerUnderstanding infant and child development is so important and can be so helpful in improving our parenting. We can always learn ways to enhance our relationships with our children.

There are geniuses in this field who deserve to be household names: Sigmund Freud, Sándor Ferenzi, Donald Winnicott, Heinz Kohut (psychoanalysis and psychotherapy); Anna Freud, Melanie Klein, Hermine Hug-Hellmuth (child/adolescent analysis and psychotherapy); August Aichhorn (adolescence); René Spitz, Selma Fraiberg (neglected, abused infants and children); John Bowlby, Margaret Mahler, Daniel Stern (attachment, development); Silvan Tomkins (affect theory).

Much of the mission of this website is to bring the work of these great men and women
into the spotlight and learn all we can from them. We see our job as helping transition
the work of these brilliant psychological minds into the public arena.

Within this site we have written and gathered many interesting articles and recommended readings to help answer questions for parents just like you. We address topics including:

Our goal is to help develop great kids and great parents. We hope to do this by discussing information about infancy and childhood — and especially about the feelings of infants and children. Why the focus on feelings? Because feelings lead to behaviors — our actions or inaction stem from our feelings.

We invite you to use and explore this site to gain a better understanding of your children and how to better communicate and interact with them.

Warmest wishes,
Paul C. Holinger, M.D., M.P.H.


What Babies Say Before They Can Talk

Translated into
a variety of languages, this book is a resource for parents—
it contains a wealth of information and provides a foundation for understanding babies’ feelings
and behaviors.

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When Children Begin to Talk

I still remember the time my son said his first word. We were in the kitchen. He looked up over the counter, saw some fruit, and said “ap-ple.” I was stunned, then joyful—and surprisingly oblivious, at that moment, to the enormous and inspiring power that had been unleashed.


  Dr. Hermine Hug-Hellmuth

Dr. Hermine Hug-Hellmuth (1871-1924) was one of the early pioneers in therapy with children.
She was one of the first child analysts. In addition to writing about child psychotherapy and
psychoanalysis per se, she was also prolific in her lecturing and writing for the public.
Among her publications is a remarkably comprehensive book titled: New Ways to the
Understanding of Youth: Psychoanalytic Lectures for Parents, teachers, Educators,
School Doctors, Kindergarten Teachers, and Social Workers.
Physical punishment does not help,
it makes things worse, and there are much better alternatives.
See the following international organizations
for more information.

endhittingusa.org >
endcorporatlpunishment.org >
New resource from the Global Initiative To End All Corporal Punishment of Children
Domestic Violence & Corporal Punishment.pdf >