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Dr Paul Holinger’s Parenting Place Newsletter - May 2012

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“Hence it is no small matter whether one habit or another
is inculcated in us from early childhood; on the contrary,
it makes considerable difference, or, rather, all the difference.”

— Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics
 

May 2012 Newsletter

Your Child Is So Smart: Recent Studies of Cognitive Development in Young Children
Over the past several months, we have been discussing child development with specific reference to feelings and language. One of the reasons combining feelings language can have such a powerful impact is because young children are so smart. How smart? Much smarter than we used to think, as Alison Gopnik describes.

Alison Gopnik is at the center of helping us understand how babies and young children think and learn. She has a lovely article in the July, 2010, issue of Scientific American (pages 76-81) which summarizes new developments in this area. She notes: “Even the youngest children know, experience and learn far more than scientists ever thought possible.”

Author of the renowned book The Scientist in the Crib, Dr. Gopnik engagingly presents a number of studies she and her colleagues have conducted over the years to show what goes on in the minds of infants and small children. For instance, they found that: 18-month-olds can understand preferences in other people which differ from their own (“I might want one thing, whereas you want another” — the beginnings of empathy!); babies understand the relation between a statistical sample and a population; and young children use statistical evidence and experiments to determine cause and effect. You might enjoy reading the article to see how Alison and her colleagues conducted these studies.

Alison summarized the studies as follows: “when children play spontaneously (‘getting into everything’) they are also exploring cause and effect and doing experiments — the most effective way to discover how the world works.”

As parents and educators, we are often so eager to “teach” our children, to help them not make the mistakes we made, that we tend to impose rather than listen. Or, as Cat Stevens said in one of his early songs: “As soon as I could talk, I was ordered to listen.” The idea here is to turn all this on its head, listen to the child, and ask: what is the child interested in?

One organization which is quite tuned in to this work is the Ounce of Prevention. As Board Member Susan Baird notes: “The Ounce was founded in 1982 by Irving Harris and has various programs which focus on early learning opportunities for children.” It now has several preschools (termed Educare Schools) around the country.

In a sense, one can divide development into two overlapping parts, the cognitive and the emotional. The work described above highlights the exciting advances in our understanding how children think and learn, i.e., the cognitive area. We are indebted to Dr. Gopnik and her colleagues for these insights.
 
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Dr. Paul Holinger

(Dr. Holinger with a five-week old
Tibetan Terrier.)

About Dr. Holinger 
Dr. Holinger is Dean of the Chicago Institute for Psychoanalysis and a founder of the Center for Child and Adolescent Psychotherapy. 

HIs focus is on infant and child development.


Dr. Holinger is the author of the acclaimed book What Babies Say Before They Can Talk.

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Book of the Month

Welcome To Your Child’s Brain: How the Mind Grows From Conception to College

Sandra Aamodt and Sam Wang

New York: Bloomsburg, 2011
 



This is a fine and fun book describing brain development from pregnancy to young adulthood. There are lots of practical tips for parents. And try the quiz at the beginning of the book – I think you’ll enjoy it.
 
They do misunderstand some psychological issues – for example: they seriously misrepresent Sigmund Freud’s work, they neglect to include Daniel Stern’s pioneering work on emotional development, and they do not describe the important specific innate feelings and their role in motivation and behavior.
 
However, they do emphasize the importance of parents simply having fun with their children, and that idea is certainly right on target!



 

Another Comic Strip
of the Year

"Baby Blues" by Rick Kirkman and Jerry Scott


The authors of this comic do a remarkable job of conveying the joys and trials of infancy, early childhood and parenting - all with a sense of humor.

 


Dr. Paul Holinger's blog "Great Kids, Great Parents" in Psychology Today

 

Be sure to check out Dr. Paul’s Blog Great Kids, Great Parents.